Dare to Un-Lead: The Art of Relational Leadership in a Fragmented World

By Céline Schillinger
ASIN#: 978-1773271828

The Rebellion Against Command and Control

We’ve inherited a version of leadership that was designed for the industrial age—built on hierarchy, standardization, and the illusion of control. In Dare to Un-Lead, Céline Schillinger argues that these legacy models are not only outdated but are actively harming our ability to innovate and connect.

For ELE members, this book provides the intellectual "permission" to stop being a enforcer of corporate policy and start being a catalyst for collective agency. Schillinger invites us to "un-lead"—to strip away the ego-driven, top-down structures and replace them with something far more potent: shared purpose and active participation.


The Blueprint: Liberty, Solidarity, and Equality

Schillinger reinterprets these classic values through the lens of modern organizational design, providing a framework for what she calls "leadership for the 21st century":

  • Liberty: This is about autonomy and trust. Instead of monitoring inputs, un-leading means creating a space where individuals have the freedom to decide how they contribute to the mission.
  • Solidarity: Moving beyond the "individual contributor" mindset. It’s about building communities within organizations where people feel a genuine sense of belonging and mutual responsibility.
  • Equality: This challenges the traditional pyramid. It doesn't mean removing all structure, but it does mean ensuring that everyone’s voice has the potential to influence the direction of the work, regardless of their title.

Why It Matters for the ELE Community

As senior Talent and L&D leaders, you are often the guardians of the employee experience. Schillinger’s work offers a roadmap for high-level transformation:

  • From Engagement to Activism: Instead of measuring "engagement" through surveys, this book teaches leaders how to spark internal "movements" that drive change from the bottom up.
  • Redefining Management: It provides a compelling argument for moving away from the "manager as a hero" trope and toward "manager as a host"—someone who facilitates the success of others.
  • Culture as a Living Organism: It aligns with the ELE philosophy that culture isn't something you "impose"; it’s something that emerges when you get the human dynamics right.

Un-leading is not an abdication of responsibility; it is a higher form of it. It requires the courage to let go of the steering wheel so that the collective intelligence of the organization can take over. When we stop trying to lead people and start leading with them, we unlock a level of agility and passion that no traditional hierarchy could ever produce.
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